I am talking about ORGASMS. A bit scary for new moms and even repeat moms, sometimes females in general are terrified of the big "O", but I can assure you there is NOTHING wrong with a healthy sexual appetite. Orgasms are an important part of life. We wouldn't create new human lives if it didn't feel good right? So why do so many women have such a hard time enjoying themselves in the bedroom reguardless of being with a partner or without? Orgasms release endorphins and hormones that give the human body a calm sense of euphoria and relaxation hence STRESS RELIEF. Not a bad thing in my opinion.
I am not neccessarily speaking of sex. Sex although fun, enjoyable, and intimate with your partner (or partners if you are not a one man/woman being) is WORK. It takes time and effort to plan the encounter, and many mommys (and daddys) just dont have the luxury of either (especially with a teething 6 month old). Instead, I suggest a healthy collection of adult toys. Toys that range from simple bullets to elaborate rabbit vibrators can be valuable tools for a quick and relaxing fix. Yes I said fix...a rush of endorphins surging through your system can relax all of your muscles in a few seconds, something definitly worth doing at the end of a busy day. It also only takes a few min with very little planning. Frankly I know numerous men who jerk off every night to help themselves get to sleep. It has NOTHING to do with their partners, intimacy, or the porn they might be watching, it is simply a stress reliever so they can get a good nights rest and if it helps me too I am going to do it.
So why not learn to explore your own body and learn what turns you on and what feels good? It will help you as a parent and as a partner.
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